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林乖乖真是苦笑不得,她从来都不知道夏念会和普通的小孩子一样会争*,原以为那是他很不屑的,却是她高估了孩子的情商,智商再高,也还是小孩子而已,是小孩子都会希望自己会是家里的核心,集万千*爱于一身,是妈妈捧在手心的宝贝。
而林乖乖这几天都沉浸在和夏垚重逢的欢乐中,以至于会在与夏垚做出亲密的举动的时候而忽略儿子的感受,这一点确实是她想的不够全面,做的不够地道。
“反正就是妈妈不爱我了,你眼里只有爸爸,我很伤心,很伤心。”
夏念听了林乖乖的解释,基本上从理智上已经了解了真相,可是从感情上却还是不能接受,所以他的心里那别扭的情绪,依然存在。
“夏念,看着妈妈,你是妈妈千辛万苦,冒着生命危险生下来的孩子,妈妈给你起小名叫乖宝,不只是一个昵称,最主要的含义是说你是林乖乖的宝贝,在妈妈的心里,没有人能替代你的地位。”
林乖乖心里叹息,她还是看不得儿子伤心,她立即用绝对的语言来肯定夏念在自己心里的地位,安抚孩子最重要的办法,大概就是认同了,认同那些对的,肯定那些存在,大道理可以慢慢的说。
“是真的吗?”````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````
夏念眼里的欢喜是那样明显,显然是林乖乖直截了当的肯定起了重要的作用,那种骄傲和自豪的情绪油然而生,整个人变得飘飘然。
“当然是,妈妈当然很爱你爸爸,正是因为爸爸妈妈相爱,才能造就一个你,也是以为妈妈对爸爸的爱,妈妈才有资格爱你,还有我们母子相依为命的数千个日日夜夜,哪里有人能取代你的位置,还有爸爸当然也是爱你的,他不知道有多么喜欢我们的乖宝,乖宝既没有失去妈妈的喜爱,还多了爸爸的疼爱,我们的乖宝是多么幸福啊,所以,妈妈的乖宝,不要伤心,妈妈怎么能眼睁睁的看着乖宝伤心,妈妈的乖宝要快点好起来,不然,妈妈会更加伤心的。”
林乖乖抓紧机会,在自己和儿子之间的谈话中,加入夏垚的成分,她知道夏念不是不爱父亲,他只是一时钻了牛角尖,朝夕相处的母亲和突然出现的父亲之间,他会毫不犹豫的选择前者,可是对于后者,他也不是全然的排斥,可是接受是一件事,分担有时一回事。
林乖乖想要告诉夏念的是,他很幸运,父母相爱,在一个健康的环境中成长是多么重要,而对于来自父母双亲的疼爱,也是弥足珍贵。
“妈妈,你好肉麻呀。”````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````
夏念似乎明白了林乖乖所要表达的意思,他有点小害羞,一下子挣脱林乖乖的束缚,躲进了自己的屋子。
林乖乖知道,儿子会自己去琢磨,没有了心理障碍,他那么聪明,一定可以想的明白的。
夏念关上门的那一刻,另一扇门打开,夏垚缓缓的走出来,他显然是偷听了林乖乖母子的谈话。
“乖乖,谢谢你,我们的儿子,你教育的很好。”
夏垚来到林乖乖身边半抱着她,他似乎明白林乖乖心里的波动。
“你说过这句话的,可我不接受你的奉承。”
再次听到夏垚的表扬,林乖乖依旧觉得不是很舒服。
“我当然重复一遍,上一次只是一个陌生人的客套,这一次才是真心的赞扬,我的乖乖是个成功的母亲,养育了一个聪明懂事的好孩子,我还有一点遗憾,错过了那小子成长,不知道该怎样弥补。”
夏垚浅笑,就知道林乖乖也是个别扭的,他解释着自己的心理,他发誓这次绝对是发自内心的赞扬,虽然他有这个资格,却同样伴随着歉疚,能拥有这样的妻子和孩子,夫复何求。````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````
“夏垚,不要总是想着弥补,我们还有很长的人生,将目光放远一点,过去的就让它过去吧。”
林乖乖放松身体,依偎在夏垚怀里,这样惬意的感觉,好像一切都是释怀的。
“对,你说的对,我的乖乖总是深明大义的。”
夏垚难得有心情开玩笑,最近他都在尽情的享受着家庭的温暖,深怕一个不小心,好梦就会醒来。
“我才不是深明大义的傻女子,我只是个自私自利的小女人,只是想方设法要留住丈夫的爱普通女人而已,不要把我想的太好,希望越大失望就会越大哦。”
林乖乖也难得的俏皮起来,两个人之间的气氛美好的不能再好了。
“好,我的乖乖不要做大女人,只做幸福的小女人,我会努力给你幸福,给孩子幸福,请你不要离开我,无论发生了什么事情,我知道这样说,显得我很自私,可是我也不过是个想要得到普通家庭生活的妖精而已。”
夏垚用最轻松的方式做着承诺,尽管他对林乖乖做过很多承诺,却鲜少有达成的,可是他心中也是有着隐隐的担心的,每次也想要从林乖乖那里寻求一份安定的承诺。````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````````
“好啊,你学我,想要我对你不离不弃,那你可要努力了,从现在开始,你只许疼我一个人,要*我,不能骗我,答应我的每一件事都要做到,对我讲得每一句话都要真心,不许欺负我,骂我,要相信我,别人欺负我,你要在第一时间出来帮我,我开心了,你就要陪着我开心,我不开心了,你就要哄我开心,永远都要觉得我是最漂亮的,梦里也要见到我,在你的心里面只有我,就是这样了。”
林乖乖脑筋一转,有了主意,借用了一段电影中极其经典的台词,不只将夏垚的皮球又提了回去,也表达了自己的不安。
“好,从现在开始,我只疼你一个,*你,不会骗你,答应你的每一件事情我都会做到,对你讲的每一句话都是真话,不欺负你,不骂你,相信你,有人欺负你,我会第一时间出来帮你,你开心的时候,我会陪着你开心,你不开心,我也会哄得你开心,永远觉得你最漂亮,做梦都会梦见你,在我心里只有你,就这样吧。”
夏垚更是很倔,几乎没有停顿就回复了林乖乖。
“吼,你怎么记得这么清楚,你是不是对别的女人说过。”
对此,林乖乖震惊不已。
“傻乖乖,难道妖精就不能看搞笑电影的嘛,真是个傻瓜。”
夏垚拍拍林乖乖的头,得意的说道。